opinions…i have nothing more to say
An opinion is neither right nor wrong. It could be used in both negative or positive natures, it just comes down to how one says it. The perception, however, is objective. That is when it can make or break your mood and it is also when your audience stands up to applaud for you or decide to attack you with a sledgehammer and beat you to death. Everyone has a right to an opinion.
I learned a tough lesson today. The harshest opinion you can ever hear is not from your enemies or the people who slap horns on your head. Indeed, it is from the people nearest to you and know you the most. They are the people who have the most potential to hit your hidden bull’s-eye (still think it’s so well hidden eh? =)) The sad thing about it is the fact that you’re still reeling from the blow, they launch another attack on you, then you can’t react anymore.
Reality’s harsh and you can’t always win ‘em all with your award winning sunny smile. The smartest move to make is acceptance, then just let it slide, forget about it and move on. If it isn’t pathetically obvious yet, i have just been the target of someone’s (respected still) opinion.
So what does this smart-ass little weedy-pie do?
‘Sright folks, accept and forget. I also contemplated on that opinion and made my own!!! HA!!! SYKES!!!
December 2nd, 2005 at 2:51 am
Teeny-chan,
There is an old aphorism about opinions; It goes like this, “Opinions are much akin to the truth… And in this world there are three truths. Your truth, my truth and the truth itself…” So we can safely surmise that the other guys opinions maybe his perception of the truth. But it is how we take these opinions, and how we perceive them, that will eventually determine how much we mortals have learned from any of them. No matter how light or harsh these opinions maybe, in the end, it is up to you to either use them or discard them at your leisure and pleasure…
Life is indeed harsh…
But each and every one of us has the power to make it a more livable…
Till next time…
-The Fred
P.S.
By the way, why miss moo? (Aahhh Ignorance is indeed bliss…)